(not me just how I feel right now)
OK I am having my doubts about this party only because when Rich hears me talk about it to someone he gets mad because he says he doesn't want a party he is fearing the 40's it really freaks him out. Remember he knows I am doing something he just doesn't know any details. People tell me, "why would you do it if he doesn't want it." "It's going to cost you so much money." I guess I don't see it like that. Why can't someone who is amazing to me and amazing to many others be honored while they are alive to hear about it. People always do nice things for people after they are gone. I really want this to work I want to do this for him. I know when it's all said and done Rich will say, "Thank you for doing this that wasn't so bad." So my next delima is to see how many of you are serious about coming, if I should just not do it. If you could please leave your comments,e-mails,voice mails I don't care which just let me know where you stand! Oh I guess I should tell you when it will be. I need your feedback on that too. Which of the following Fridays work better for people. The majority Friday wins. I know it seems so far from now but with peoples vacation plans and school resuming in August I thought this would help people out. Rich's birthday is Wednesday August 19Th.
The dates to consider:
Friday July 31st
Friday August 7Th
Friday August 21st
Keep in mind if a whole lot of people are not even going to be there I may have to scratch the theatre idea and go with something on a smaller scale. Don't be afraid to just tell me that you won't be able to come at all.
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6 comments:
Liz,
I get what you're saying but you should defineitly listen to your husband and really consider what he wants.
I don't know about rich but I love low key get togethers. I think you'd get more people to come that way too.
But whatever you decide to do we'll be there.
We don't know for sure what our schedule will be this far in advance. But if we are in town we will make it.
Whatever you do we'll be there.
By the way, GAR is Amy I am using his blog ID.
GAR says listen to your husband and don't stess out about this...it'll all be fine.
I think you should do what Rich wants. I'm with him on the low key thing. But whatever you decide you know we will be there. As far as dates. Firday night is high school football night so depending on when football starts, it may be an issue. Good Luck! Mel
We haven't planned our summer yet, so I'm not sure which date would work the best. But I will say this: Mark talked me out of doing anything for his 30th birthday because he wanted to save money, and he was sad about getting old. So I didn't really do anything, and I TOTALLY regretted it. I think you should do it for sure.
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